After 12 1/2 years w/o fertility help (due to my insurance not having it) and 1/2 a year (with fertility help) I am pregnant again for the second time in my life (Confirmed by the doctor's office just yesterday).  We have not told anyone yet since I am on the fence about telling.  One part of me would like to celebrate the other half is worried about what could happen.  Is anyone else in this boat?  I don't think I'll worry as much when I finally see the first ultrasound (Since it is supposed to show the heartbeat).   I have a similiar experience. We did not try for 12 years but 3-4. ...